Retribution

John Adams considered that holding grudges was a matter of personal integrity. And often times grudges result from the exposure of insecurities. And when our vulnerabilities are put on display, the hurt can be so deep that we seek revenge. Personal space may have been invaded, or one may have been significantly impacted by factors beyond their control. Regardless of what the root cause may have been, some feel the need to atone for the result.

People have different criteria to evaluate whether or not revenge is necessary. And those who seek revenge can be dedicated to their own perceptions of integrity. Yet on the flipside, one's integrity can take a hit due to their vengeance.

What makes us feel better when we "get back" at people? What do we think of people who are successful in avenging their nemesis? What is the difference between wanting revenge and giving someone a second chance?

Revenge has a weakness. Its consequences aren't always considered due to its powerful combination of passion and urgency.